Green Flags Only: Belle's Dating Field Guide

Belle has planned 312 weddings and she's still single. Not because she doesn't know what good looks like. Because she does. She can tell which couples will last before the cake is cut, and this is everything she's learned, turned into a field guide you can look up when you need it.

Part 1 · The Field Guide

Twenty pairs of flags from the planning meetings, each red flag printed opposite its green flag: The Seating Plan Flag and The Open Guest List, The Last-Minute Florist and The Supplier Callback, The Midnight Menu and The Steady Texter, and seventeen more. Each card has what it looks like, what it usually means, and what Belle would do.

Part 2 · The Scripts

Forty word-for-word messages, sorted by situation: first dates, "what are we?", the 11pm "wyd", when he's gone quiet, boundaries, ending it kindly, and going first. Every script comes in three versions (main, softer, firmer) with a line on why it works.

Part 3 · Your Standards

Your non-negotiables, your three dealbreakers, and a first-month checklist to fill in on a calm day, so you have them on a confusing one.

Also inside (61 pages)

• "How do you feel right now?" index: find the feeling, go to the page
• A before-and-after score (clarity, confidence, standards), a usage log and your Keep Five
• A safety page with real helplines
• Bonuses: Profile Glow-Up, the Micro-Date Menu (20 short dates), and Belle's Wedding Receipts

A4 and US Letter, each as a colour PDF, a fillable PDF and a print-friendly version. Keep the fillable one on your phone for the moment you need the words.

The honest bit

Belle is an AI-created character, and the planning-meeting stories are illustrative. This guide is about clarity and self-respect. No games, no tricks, and no message that "makes" someone want you. If a relationship is controlling or frightening, the guide sends you to real help first.

I plan weddings, not miracles.