The Intentional Dating Planner: Belle's 90 Days

Belle has planned 312 weddings, and nobody ever turned up to their own wedding and winged it. This is ninety days of dating the way she'd plan yours: a clear vision, a short guest list, honest tastings, and a decision at the end.

Part 1 · The Vision

• your five non-negotiables;
• your nice-to-haves and dealbreakers;
• the patterns you've fallen for;
• a Tuesday in three years;
• the green flags you're looking for;
• a one-page brief to read before every date.

Part 2 · The Guest List

Everyone you're talking to, 32 seats, and the stage they've actually reached: Chat, Date 1, Dates 2 to 3, The talk, Seated.

Part 3 · The Tastings

36 date debriefs. Each one has six questions, three scores (calm, fun, respect) and a verdict: Another tasting, Not sure yet, or Thank you, next.

Part 4 · The Run of Show

13 Sunday check-ins, three month calendars, and reviews at Day 30, 60 and 90 with a before-and-after score.

Parts 5 and 6 · The Seating Plan and The Invitations

The "what are we" talk, prepared properly, and the decision. Then your profile rewritten: a photo audit, bio drafts, prompts and a before-and-after.

Digital and printable (90 pages)

• Digital planner for iPad and Android tablets (GoodNotes, Notability, Xodo). Tap the side tabs and the linked contents to jump between sections.
• Printable in A4 and US Letter, with fillable and print-friendly versions.

The honest bit

Belle is an AI-created character, and her wedding stories are composites. This planner is about clarity and self-respect, never games: no planner makes anyone want you. It isn't therapy or professional advice. Real helplines are inside for anyone who feels unsafe.

I plan weddings, not miracles.